Just a happy little family making our way through life, marriage and parenthood...with lots of love and laughter.
Family Pic
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tasty flip flop?
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Cousins!
Last week my sister and her family came in from California and it was so great to have the two families together again - especially the babies! At first they were a little timid but after a few minutes they were all all over each other. And by the end of the week they were acting like siblings - fighting over toys, pushing, pulling hair. But they were also really sweet with each other. Jack would get a huge smile when he saw M in the morning and M would always go in for a big kiss. It was precious. I hate to admit that Jen and I were so bad about taking pictures so we only got a few. But we're headed out to San Diego for Marseille's 1st birthday in a few weeks so we'll make sure to get a lot more. I can't believe our little bunny is already 1 year old!!
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Daddy's Boy?
Last week it reached the sad level for me and I actually broke down crying...at work...in the middle of the day. I started asking myself why I was so upset. Wasn't I the one who wanted a totally hands-on-dad, a 50-50 parenting partner, someone who would be in the trenches with me at 3am? Christian is all those things and more. But by getting my wish did I somehow shift the delicate balance of human nature - that babies are supposed to gravitate to their mommies?
Then, like a sign from God, I got an email from babycenter.com about this exact topic. All this time I thought I was the lone mom who's kid shunned her on a daily basis. But alas, the message boards were filled with women who had the same complaint..."I carried this kid for 9 months and he only wants to be with his dad!" Not to delight in their dismay, but I suddenly felt relieved that I wasn't the only one. The expert weighing in on the topic wrote that this is a totally normal process and soon enough the tide will turn in my direction and I will be wishing Jack would go to his dad once in a while. Ahhh...I suddenly felt lighter.
So this weekend Jack was really sick and kept us up 3 nights in a row. Can I just tell you how thankful I was that Jack would go to his dad for comfort and that Christian could sooth our baby as much as I could. And as I sat there at 3am watching Christian rock Jack to sleep I felt silly for making such a fuss. Jack loves us both, it doesn't matter who holds him the most. The important thing is that he's happy and loved. Chalk another one up to the insecurities of a new mommy!
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
I'm 8 Months Old Today!
I can honestly say that this has been the biggest month of changes for our little man. In one month he's learned to sit up, feed himself, crawl, stand on his own and begin to pull himself up. Once he discovered how great it was to be mobile, there was no stopping him. The kid is literally all over the place now. He loves to explore...and by explore, I mean get into EVERYTHING! So we spent Sunday afternoon putting away all of his infant stuff...it was bittersweet. Happy he's developing so well but sad that it's all happening so fast.
But besides the physical stuff, he's also changed so much emotionally. Captain Serious has been replaced by Mr. Happy. Jack smiles all the time - at us, strangers, his teachers and little friends at school. He dances to music and loves to laugh. As hard as it was to take him to school, it has made a world of difference in just a few weeks. The social aspect of it has really opened him up. He is always happy when I drop him off at school which makes us very happy!
He's just the perfect little boy....NOT! GAG! While we are so proud of him achieving all his milestones, we must admit that this month he has also become quite the stinker. He throws little tantrums when he doesn't like something and is the master at arching his back and flipping over when we try to change his diaper. He's a very strong-willed child and I have a feeling we are in for some TERRIBLE two's.
Hey, that's just the way it goes. And there's definitely more laughter than tears. Jack is so aware of who we are now and he's happiest when the three of us are together. He's like our little buddy and we're having so much fun with him. We can't get enough of him and can't wait to see what he'll do next! These are the parts of parenthood that we cherish. We just love that kid more and more every day, no matter what he does!
Mommy says she adores this little face!
Check me out....I'm crawling on all fours. But don't be fooled - this new toys is no fun and mommy is returning it to Target.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Happy Friday!
Jack definitely loves to laugh! And we love hearing his deep giggles!
Just a warning...this video is 2 minutes of pretty much the same thing. This went on for over 5 minutes and of course we thought it was adorable. But you might be over it in about a minute.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
School Days
Jack just finished his first week of school. And I have to tell you, it wasn't as horrible as I thought it would be. I think I cried more when we made the decision to put him into daycare. Then I bawled my eyes out when I was interviewing them and asking them if they would show Jack affection. Most of my friends have kids in daycare so I got a lot of advice and support from them. I owe a HUGE THANK YOU to Kate, Rianna and Lisa for holding my hand through this process. They all have beautiful, well-adjusted kids so I trusted them when they told me it would all be ok. I love having fellow mommies to turn to. Thanks girls!
So, the big day came and went without too much drama. Christian and I actually took Jack to school a few times the week before his official start date. So by the time we started Jack was pretty familiar with the classroom, the kids and all the teachers. It's a big class - there are 15 babies and 5 teachers.....Ms. Holly, Ms. Dalina, Ms. Jackson, Ms. Shyista and, Jack's favorite, Ms. Savannah! It's a great school! Everyone is so warm and the environment is very colorful and happy.
I think the transition was probably harder on us than it was for Jack. Christian was out of town last week so I had to do it alone. So of course I cried that first day. Jack cried a little too but by the end of the week he was all smiles which made me feel much better. He has fun in school - they listen to music, dance and do crafts. For now he'll be there 3 days a week until he's a little older. We think Jack is going to be very happy at the Primrose School of Peachtree Corners!
Our new morning ritual of grooming! We wash our face, brush our teeth and comb our hair. As you can see Jack LOVES brushing his teeth.
Captain Serious has left the building!
Say Cheese! He's practicing his fake camera smile. If you look close, you can see his cute little teeth.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Jack's REALLY crawling!
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Jack's "crawling!"
I also wanted to show you the video of Jack really starting to sit up for extended lengths of time. This is a few weeks old so he's got more skills now. MOMMY WARNING - this is a bit long and probably only fascinating for the parents and grandparents. My baby voice is also very annoying. So only watch if you are really bored!! He does look ridiculously cute here in his Polo outfit from Auntie Melanie. Love to all...